6 Qualities of Forgiveness You Need Now

Elaine Murray
9 min readAug 7, 2020

Forgiveness isn’t something that’s “one and done” but a constant unfolding, a wake up and try, try again, and in the words of Winston Churchill, something upon which we must “Never, never, never, never give up.”

We have lavish stories of forgiveness that model for us regular human beings some sort of super-human faith in goodness, in God, or stupidity and victimhood disguised as humility.

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There are heaps of stories about a lack of forgiveness — that is more the norm than not, and rather than study the seven habits of a forgiving person, a focus is needed on forgiveness as a function of community. One can’t summon the courage to do this unless they are breathing this air, like a fish needs gills to breathe underwater, we too must develop this skill for living in the kind of forgiveness culture/eco-system that makes our world brighter and more generous.

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Forgiveness is a Character of Community

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Elaine Murray

Pastor | Mother | Communicator | Spiritual Director | Child of God