The Day You’re Supposed to Heal

Elaine Murray
5 min readFeb 24, 2021

The internet told me it takes 18 months to heal from divorce (547.5 days)

“Siri, how many days until February 28, 2021?”

I want to write ahead of the day so that when it comes, I can welcome it for whatever it is, maybe without noticing at all.

This is my day. An 18-month old is still testing boundaries, wondering to herself, “Can I really do that?” and delighting when she discovers for herself that “Yes! Yes, she can!”

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Elaine Murray

Pastor | Mother | Communicator | Spiritual Director | Child of God